Category: caregiver

  • Tiny Update 

    Tiny Update 

    Trent has definitely felt better. We’ve been dealing with a lot of changes in a short period of time. He’s been doing a lot of resting and sleeping lately. We’ve had many many memorable conversations in the wee hours of the morning. I wish I could find a way to take his pain away. I’d…

  • The Truth About Costa Rica

    The Truth About Costa Rica

    On some level I’ve been avoiding writing this post for some time. Since June, really. I do not feel about our trip to Costa Rica as I once did. Thank goodness…

  • I See You, 2017!

    I See You, 2017!

    #IHCblogawards

  • Post-Thanksgiving

    Post-Thanksgiving

    I’m tired. And I know that this goes for all of us. I see it and feel it all over everyone. We’re sick more often and tired all the time. Our energy stores are empty and our capacity for patience is topped. Trent is really feeling tired since his experience with the pleural effusion from a few…

  • November 10

    November 10

    This is 37.

  • So, What About Trent?

    I know. I know. It’s been a while since I’ve given this blog any attention. That’s because all of my attention has been going exclusively to my family. I have literally had zero time for much else, other than 15-20 minutes of yoga a day, which is essential at this point. So, what about Trent?…

  • Operation Pura Vida

    Operation Pura Vida

    I’ve been trying to write this blog for about a month. I haven’t figured out if I haven’t had any interest or if I’ve been too busy or I just didn’t have anything to say.  I’ve definitely had some trouble getting my thoughts in order enough to write, but I do feel a certain responsibility…

  • Sick and Tired – A Lovely Pair

    Sick and Tired – A Lovely Pair

    To say that things have been difficult since beginning Votrient would be a gross and negligent understatement. Trent has missed days, yes days, of his life. There’s the irregular morning sickness that he has stopped fighting and given himself over to, because it’s just easier to let it all go. There is diarrhea – often,…

  • Votrient – 5 weeks

    Votrient – 5 weeks

    5 Weeks In and Votrient Still Sucks

  • The War

    The War

    What does it really mean to “fight cancer?”